Monday, 21 July 2014

21st Birthday: BBQ, Cake, Fireworks & Whipsnade Zoo

Helloo,

So you may have seen my last post which felt like forever ago now but I have been super busy and that is because it has been my birthday :) I won't lie, I have been overly excited and made the most of it whilst I can still enjoy before getting too old. Only 21 once right?

The night before my birthday, whilst I was fast asleep my other half popped to Tesco and got some decorations ready for when I woke up. It was really sweet and I was so pleased :) Going down the stairs, Corey in front of me and he goes 'mummy, its a party for your birthday' - what a sweetie!

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On the day itself we had a family BBQ at my mums with cake and presents. We ended up doing the BBQ in the oven because it was far too hot to be standing in front of the heat of the BBQ. Originally she had ordered a personalised cake from Marks & Spencers, who unfortunately screwed up (not just mine, many others too!) and ended up with a refund and FOUR cakes off the shelf. Corey and I chose which was our favourite to light the candles and ended up which was this Enchanted Fairy cake, it tasted so yummy!! Corey helped with blowing out of the candles of course.

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Here is Corey having some fun in the garden, it was so blooming hot that day and Corey was sweating buckets as you can tell by his hair!

sunshine on a cloudy day blog - 21st birthday celebrations

I remember Corey crying on the way home from my mums that evening as he didn't want my party to be over so we are keeping all the balloons up until we say the party is over! How long do you reckon I can keep them up before my other half gets annoyed?!

A couple of days before my birthday, we went for my birthday day trip out which was Whipsnade Zoo, not far from where I live and it was an absolutely wonderful day with my mum, nan and Corey. The train was the most beloved bit of it.

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whipsnade zoo
whipsnade zoo
whipsnade zoo

I love these photos of Corey taking pictures with the camera and then seeing what he had taken. It was so sweet - a little pro in the making :) We were really lucky too as all the animals came out close to see, the giraffes seemed the be Corey's favourite.

On Saturday, in my local town there is this thing called River Festival, a massive event that happens every other year full of rides, music and stalls. The girls and I decided we would take a picnic blanket and set up and make cocktails right into the night to watch the fireworks. You may have seen on Twitter that the night didn't end so great though - the girls can't handle their drink which is ironic as I can when I drink like 5 times a year rather than every weekend like they do! But non the less I got some beautiful firework pictures:

bedford river festival 2014 fireworks

Would like to say a massive thankyou for all the birthday tweets, instagrams, facebooks etc on the day last Friday - it made my day! As I write this I am watching Mulan with the boys whilst we recover from a very busy last few days :) I have a few posts lined up to share what I got up too, presents, hauls and more so keep an eye out for these too :) What did you or do you plan to get up to for your 21st? :)

Love, Gemma xo


Friday, 18 July 2014

21st Birthday :):)

A little message just to say I am not around much at the moment as I am taking a little well deserved break this week from blogging whilst I celebrate my 21st birthday which is todayy :) 

I know I will have lots of exciting posts for you after my break of some of the fun bits I have been getting up too or plan too over the next few days! Already done far too much shopping so expect some hauls and reviews. 

Today I am off to a family BBQ with hopefully some cake and presents! :) Hope you're all having a lovely week & will see you here again soon!

Love, Gemma xo

Monday, 14 July 2014

A Whole Week Apart?!

Helloo,

So as we all know it is coming up to Summer, the dreaded 6 weeks of having to entertain kids constantly. Luckily, I don't have to deal with that just yet as Corey isn't at school age. But it does mean that for a one week Corey will be with his dad.

How to cope?!

I believe this is to be the third time, quite frankly I don't remember the first. But I do remember last year I had decided to potty train Corey one Monday, but then I was taking into hospital on the Wednesday for an operation. Frankly I was so poorly, and it was a relief Corey was going to be looked after this point. I was in a lot of pain, dosed up high and sleeping lots but it didn't make it any easier.

This year I am already absolutely dreading it. Ok, well to be honest I had actually forgotten until now. Which makes it even worse, no time to prepare! Corey will be heading to Blackpool for the week with his dad and grandparents and will have lots of fun I am sure. I hear how lovely it is there, but never been myself!

But it is a whole freaking week!!

Like I honestly don't know how I am going to cope, my other half and mum will be working. What will I possible spend my time doing?

I have to go every other weekend from Saturday at 9am to Sunday at 7.30pm without Corey, this is obviously not by choice. But it is good for Corey to spend time with his other family and good for me to have a break.

But it will be a whole freaking week!!

I strongly believe that parents should have a break every now and then, like you just need some time to keep sane. I honestly don't know how some parents, who don't have this choice, do it. I am so lucky to have a family who will help out when I need it, if I am poorly or whatever.

Because Corey goes to pre-school, I only have him 3 days a week one week and 5 the next. It doesn't feel like much at all. The days I have him we either spend together or with my family. I am lucky that I am not working, because when I was full-time it was only really evenings we got together. It was so hard!

I think because if Corey is to stay at mums on the rare occasion or if I were to take a weekend away, I can still speak to Corey through the phone or facetime, we have a little chat. Mum will send the odd photo too and I will get an update of what he is up too. It's more reassuring knowing I can do that. I like to see his little face!

But a whole freaking week!!

And absolutely no contact, the thought of it is just so unbearable. A whole week without seeing his face at all, speaking to him to say our "I love you"s or our kisses and cuddles before he goes to sleep. I have learnt to handle one night every other week without bedtime cuddles etc.

But a whole freaking week!!



Just look at that cute face? The other night, I was singing him some lullabies to get him to sleep after his 2 hour giggle fit. I thought he was asleep and turned round to this little face! Then he started singing along, what a cutie :)

How would you cope or spend your time? Any tips to help me through this in August would be greatly appreciated!

Love, Gemma xo

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Sunday, 13 July 2014

Silent Sunday #2


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Thursday, 10 July 2014

Blogger's Love ❤ #6

Hellooo,

Somehow I totally forgot to do one for last week, so silly of me. I realised when it was too late. But here we are with another week of Blogger's Love ❤


apinchofshaz - chicgeekdiary - pollyslittleworld - lucieandthebump

I remember when I first started blogging and I was following all of these lovely ladies and their journeys of pregnancy. Still by far some of the best pregnancy posts I have seen! Now with the little ones arrivals a while ago now, they have turned into fantastic mummies and still love reading all about their babies!

Be sure to check them out and come back next week for more :)

Love, Gemma xo

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Tuesday, 8 July 2014

25 Things To Do This Summer

Helloo,

I was tagged by Sophie at EskayBeauty in 25 Things To Do this Summer. You can read her post all about it here. Super exciting as a bit like a bucket list and I have never really had one before, so let's hope I can stick to this one and make some good memories :)

25 things to do this summer 2014

1. Go for a picnic
2. Get a paddling pool 
3. Go to Harry Potter Studios
4. Celebrate my 21st birthday (18th July for those who don't know!)
5. Go to the Zoo or Safari Park
6. Visit my favourite place in the world - London Sealife Centre
7. Spontaneous day trip out
8. Bake a cake
9. Have a BBQ
10. Get a trampoline
11. Watch a TV series (probably supernatural)
12. Sort the garden out, at least get chairs!
13. Get Corey over his sudden strange weird fear of riding his bike
14. Shop at an outlet centre (Bicester, Hatfield etc)
15. Go to Westfield Shopping Centre
16. Attend my town's River Festival
17. Have a date night with the other half
18. Have a go in the paddling pool
19. Have my blog's 1st birthday (2nd Sept - the very end of Summer!)
20. Use my camera more instead of iphone
21. Have a picnic
22. Meet up with fellow blogger(s)
23. Go to the park at least 3 times
24. Take a walk round the woods
25. Treat myself to something Disney

So there you have it, my bucket list of 25 Things To Do This Summer! I will check in at the end to see how much I actually got done :) What is at the top of your list to do this summer?!

I tag: Bethany Worral - Beckas Beauty Blog - Cluttered Closet - Fresh and Fearless

****UPDATED THIS TO CROSS OUT WHAT I DONE OFF THE LIST! DIDN'T DO SO BAD****

Love, Gemma xo

Sunday, 6 July 2014

Silent Sunday #1

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